8 Surprising Ways to Save (Big!) on Your Wedding [[ Condensed Version ]]

A NOTE TO MY FUTURE CHEAP BRIDE-SELF

Simplify Your Stationery
Planning to send engagement announcements or save-the-dates? Make them yourself! There are so many fun DIY ways to customize cards or stationery to share your news. Doing so won’t just help you save big, you’ll also be able to truly personalize the message. Plus, you know those blank pieces of paper that go inside most invitations? Guess what — they’re totally unnecessary! Save hundreds of dollars by skipping this super-formal tradition. The extra paper may be a little over the top, especially if you’re having a casual wedding.
Keep It in the Family
Buying wedding jewelry can be quite costly for the bride — especially when you’re already spending a lot on your gown! Skipping the usual jewelry in favor of one-of-a-kind family heirlooms could save and add a special touch to your big day. Vintage jewelry is very popular for brides right now and can really transform your entire wedding day look.
Buy Your Gown Second Hand
Consider shopping for a gently used gown. Not sure where to start? Hit online shops like WoreItOnce.com (which offers the chance to purchase used bridal and bridesmaid gowns) or SavetheDress.com — this site actually lets you post an ad for the gown of your dreams and sellers can directly respond with offers.
Hire a “Friendly” Officiant
Hiring a priest, rabbi, or even a judge can be difficult — especially if you’re planning on getting married outside of your community. While laws and religious rules about officiants can vary by location, you can keep your budget down by asking a friend or family member who’s qualified to conduct the ceremony (as a wedding gift!) at your preferred venue, or pick someone close to you and ask them to become ordained online through websites like FirstNationMinistry.com.
Stick to Signature Drinks
A cash bar is a definite no-no, but limiting your open bar to several signature drinks to cut down the costs is perfectly acceptable. Nod to your wedding theme or location to really amp up your party. Looking for something new? Use some of the money you saved from not having a fully open bar to hire an expert mixologist to whip up a few signature drinks for your special day.
Go With Local Talent
Consult your friends and family for help on finding local entertainment. Contact your local college music department for recommendations on student musicians in the area. Most likely, your newbie talent will be eager to please and open to accommodating your distinct musical style for a very discounted rate. Note: Just because you’re getting your entertainment for less doesn’t mean you should skimp on feeding them.
Minimize the Menu
It’s a wedding, not a five-star restaurant, so whoever said you have to offer fish, chicken, and steak needs a reality check. If you’re a foodie, then go ahead and splurge on your menu (and maybe save with smaller centerpieces or a DJ). If not, serve plates with duos, like a crab cake and small filet, so guests can have a taste of everything and you don’t pay for wasted entrees.
Honeymoon in the US
You don’t need a passport to have the honeymoon of your dreams! Many four- and five-star resorts throughout the country offer lavish honeymoon suites and packages that can easily compete with those in the Caribbean and other popular honeymoon destinations. Plus, you’ll save a ton on airfare — especially if you book well in advance. Hawaii may be a little too far, but cities like Chicago, Austin, Miami, and New Orleans are loaded with personality, charm, and endless possibilities for honeymooners that want to save money and stick close to home. Plus, you can afford to stay a day or two longer this way, and who wouldn’t be up for that?

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